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Writer's pictureAmby Mathur

Italian Wedding Guest Attire: What to Wear to an Italian Wedding

Buongiorno, fashionistas! Wedding season is in full blast here in Italy (we have three this month, including our own!) If you’ve been lucky enough to snag an invite to an Italian wedding, then let me just say—congratulations! You’re about to experience one of the most stylish and memorable events of your life. But before you start daydreaming about all that prosecco and pasta, let’s talk about the one thing that’s likely at the top of your mind: Italian wedding guest attire. What do you wear to an Italian wedding that’s both respectful of tradition and dripping with style? Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered.



Amby dressed for an Italian wedding in a bronze satin maxi dress from Roberta Bacarelli
Ready for an Italian wedding in a bronze satin maxi dress from Roberta Bacarelli and a lace fan

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The Golden Rule of Italian Weddings: Dress to Impress


In Italy, weddings are a big deal, and so is your outfit. Italians take pride in their appearance, and weddings are the perfect excuse to pull out all the stops. So, if you’re wondering what to wear to an Italian wedding, here is what you need to know:


Color Is Your Friend: Italian weddings are full of life and color, so feel free to embrace vibrant hues. Think jewel tones like emerald green, sapphire blue, and ruby red. Pastels are also a hit, especially in the warmer months. Just remember to steer clear of white (that’s the bride’s territory) and black (that's usually reserved for funerals or other evening events).


Fabrics Matter: When it comes to Italian wedding fashion, the fabric is key. Opt for luxurious materials like silk, satin, or chiffon. Not only do they look elegant, but they’ll also keep you cool during those long Italian summer ceremonies. Trust me, no one wants to be the guest who’s melting before the reception even starts. Speaking of heat, consider bringing a lace hand held fan. It is a chic, timeless, and very useful accessory.


Day vs. Evening: Knowing When to Dial It Up


In Italy, weddings can last all day, from a morning church ceremony to a night of dancing under the stars. Your outfit needs to transition as smoothly as a perfectly twirled plate of spaghetti.

Luisa Spagnoli yellow maxi dress Italian wedding guest outfit
Luisa Spagnoli's Pittura Dress is a soft and romantic Italian wedding outfit

For Daytime Ceremonies: If the wedding is during the day, go for something light and elegant. A knee-length dress in a soft color palette is perfect. Pair it with a chic pair of sunglasses and small purse to elevate the look.



Elisabetta Franchi blue satin midi dress Italian wedding outfit
Elisabetta Franchi's Satin Dress is an elegant and glamorous evening Italian wedding outfit

For Evening Receptions: When the sun sets, it’s time to up the glamour. A floor-length gown or a sophisticated cocktail dress in deeper shades will do the trick. Don’t forget to accessorize with some statement jewelry—Italians love a bit of sparkle. And if you’re unsure about the dress code, it’s always safe to opt for semi-formal attire that leans toward the dressier side.


The Dos and Don’ts of Italian Wedding Guest Attire


Let’s break it down even further with some essential dos and don’ts for nailing your Italian wedding guest attire:


DO: Embrace Classic Elegance



pinko elegant taffeta dress pink maxi
Pinko's Elegant Taffeta Dress is a classic outfit for an Italian Wedding guest


Think timeless over trendy. Italian fashion is all about classic silhouettes with a modern twist. A fitted sheath dress or an A-line cut will always hit the mark.


DON’T: Overdo the Sexy


While Italians are known for their sultry style, a wedding isn’t the time to push the boundaries. Keep it classy—save the plunging necklines and thigh-high slits for another occasion. A little mystery goes a long way.


DO: Consider the Location


Liu Jo blue maxi floral dress Italian wedding outfit
Liu Jo's Floral Pleated Dress is a great outfit for a rustic Italian wedding


Is the wedding in a grand cathedral or a quaint countryside chapel? The venue can give you clues about what’s appropriate. A formal city wedding might call for more structured attire, while a rustic vineyard ceremony allows for something more relaxed and romantic.


DON’T: Forget the Footwear


Italian weddings often involve cobblestone streets and grassy lawns, so choose your shoes wisely. Opt for block heels or elegant flats that won’t leave you sinking into the ground or wobbling on uneven surfaces. Plus, you’ll want to be comfortable enough to dance the night away!



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Ferragamo's Bow Pump is a comfortable and classic heel option for an Italian wedding


DO: Add a Pop of Personality


While it’s important to respect tradition, there’s always room for a bit of personal flair. Whether it’s a bold print, an eye-catching accessory, or a unique hairstyle, let your outfit reflect your personality.


DON’T: Leave Your Shawl at Home



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A light shawl is respectful to have for the ceremony and will keep you warm in the evening


Even in the summer, Italian churches can be cool, and some may require shoulders to be covered. A light shawl or wrap is a stylish way to stay warm and respectful during the ceremony.

What About the Men?



Marco wears a bright blue fitted suit Italian wedding outfit
My husband at a friend's wedding, dressed in a custom suit from Sartoria Cacciapuoti


Gents, I haven’t forgotten about you! Italian wedding fashion for men is all about sharp tailoring. A well-fitted suit is non-negotiable, and Italians tend to favor slim cuts. Go for classic colors like navy, charcoal, or a light gray for daytime weddings. Pair it with a crisp white shirt and a silk tie—patterned if you’re feeling adventurous. And don’t forget the shoes—polished leather loafers or Oxfords will complete the look.



Final Thoughts: When in Doubt, Go Italian



italian wedding cake, lemons, olives
An Italian wedding is a celebration to remember!


If you’re still unsure about what to wear and don't mind waiting until the last minute, you can always buy something in Italy! Italians are masters of blending tradition with modern elegance, so look to the locals or ask the local shop-keepers for inspiration. Remember, Italian weddings are your chance to celebrate love in one of the most beautiful countries in the world—so make sure your Italian wedding outfit is worthy of the occasion.


Now, go forth and dazzle, knowing you’ll be turning heads for all the right reasons. Buon matrimonio!


Helpful links:


Want to look cute for the rest of your travels? Learn how to achieve la dolce vita aesthetic.

Want to get married in Italy? Here's what you need to know.



Un bacio,

Amby


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